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March 26, 2012

Emma Routh Has A Wish - To Meet Justin Bieber!

Justin, Emma is fighting Fanconi Anemia. She is very sick.
Her dream is to meet you.

Little Emma was diagnosed with Fanconi anemia at the age of 3. Fanconi anemia is a rare bone marrow disease that leads to many cancers and life threatening health problems. So far Emma has stayed cancer free, but this warrior has been through so much. She has had countless rounds of chemotherapy, bone marrow aspirations, a bone marrow transplant, and very long hospital stays. Her battle is not over... please see this link to read her story:  http://www.facebook.com/prayersforemma?sk=info

I would personally like to ask that my readers please take a minute and look at the photo below. This is a screen shot of several HATE comments regarding Emma's wish to meet Justin Bieber. It is unbelievable that anyone would say such horrible things about a little girl who is fighting for her life and has one wish right now and that is to meet a celebrity. That is not unheard of, many children with terminal diseases have wishes to meet a celebrity and they come true every day. There is absolutely no reason why Emma will not get to meet Justin.

 I am sure that if we all stand together and make our voices heard we can get Justin's attention and once he is aware that this sweet little girl want's to meet him so bad, he will make it a priority. So please everyone take a minute and contact Justin Bieber via his website, Facebook Fan Page, even go to his recording company, anywhere you know of that will reach him and tell him about Emma. 

Also the comments below will only make Emma and her supporters work harder to get her to meet Justin. We will not allow anyone to put anything negative on this dream. If you know any of the people in this photo of comments please go to there Facebook pages and tell them how absolutely disrespectful and hateful the comments they made where and be sure to let them know it will not be tolerated or forgotten. They need to be exposed as the haters they are so they can not do this to anyone else. Thank you for your support and caring for Emma's wish and for helping to get her voice heard.

Comments like these about Emma give us all the more reason to try harder to help our girl. These people made the comments in order to put us down and tell emma she will never meet justin and she is bald and ugly. Little do they know we took the comments and all it did was make us try even harder for Emma. We will not let haters change our mission. We are a determined, strong group of people....all with a common goal. To see our (our meaning all of ours, she is your's too!) girl happy. Thank you for continuing along this journey with us, and helping us see the haters make us even stronger!


I know the photo is small, please try right clicking on it and opening it in a new tab - there you should be able to see the names clearly.

You can read more about Emma at the CaringBridge.com

March 20, 2012

Please Help Gina Buonfiglio's Cancer Fund Today!

Gina has Endometrial Carcinoma a rare Cancer with no cure.

Gina's cancer fund will aid in the medical expenses that are not covered. Please show your support and help her fight her battle!

Here are some words from Gina...

I believe: Everything happens for a reason, without clarity, but for a purpose yet unseen! 

About Me: Cancer survivior, lived many lifetimes and now settling down into the one I have been searching for! Fought for domestic violence laws to be changed as well as the spreading education on Endometriosis. At age 36 I had a hysterectomy, which changed my life forever. I have a fantastic fiance with a 8 yr old daughter whom stole my heart. I am so loved I only want for the people who love me to know just how special they are to me.

Gina's battle today: What began as Endometriosis that had been undiagnosed for so long causing it to turn into Cancer. At age 39 and single, she was given five years to live and that was nearly six years ago. Gina is struggling, she is on social security and can not work as a medical massage therapist any longer, only making $700.00 a month. 

Her medication runs over a $1,000.00 a month, insurance will not cover many of them as well as not covering her doctor's appointments, and Medicaid is not an option. She is forced to go with out food or be late on basic bills every month. Gina is always helping others yet has never asked for help herself. Her Cancer is also know as Uterine Cancer. She has never married and doesn't have children of her own. She lives in the mountains and has to depend on medical transportation and neighbors to help drive her to her appointments. The American Cancer Society volunteers can help but they are limited due to the fact that she lives in a rural area. She needs help paying for medications so she can have money to eat and pay her bills without the stress of not having anything else. There are two great doctors in NYC that she would like to see and they are highly recommended by the Foundation of American Cancer Society, and wants to raise the money to seek the care she needs to have a functional life. Gina is a proud person who will not ask for help. She spends her time trying to form a foundation to help find a cure, while managing a support group where her free time is spent helping others cope with Endometriosis and those who are caregivers. She hopes to form a non profit organization to find a cure for future girls so they will never suffer the way she does today. Her wish is to spread the word and have her voice heard to educate other on the fact that this disease can be deadly despite what doctors say. She is proof that Endometriosis can turn into Cancer, not only that but it is linked to several other Cancers as well as Lupus. She fights for her life in pain all the time and can not afford to get medications that will ease her pain and nausea which is why we are trying to raise a few thousand dollars and help relieve the stress of everyday life and be able to cope with Cancer. Gina is strong and can beat this with the help and support of others. She is in need of help with the funding of her treatments, doctor's appointments, medications and transportation. Gina has been advocating for this cause and related ones for years and has helped so many by raising awareness, please give back to her and donate toward her Cancer Fund.
For more information and ways you can donate please see Gina's fund page at: http://www.giveforward.com/ginascancerfund 

To get to know Gina and the causes as well as support groups she advocates for please visit her at:

March 16, 2012

I Support The Beautiful & Bald "Unforgettable Barbie" !

The Beautiful & Bald Barbie is in the news today!

The Facebook Community page Beautiful & Bald Barbie let's see if we can get her made was insulted today by a blogger on a highly visited website. I completely support the making of Bald & Beautiful Barbie and that is why I feel I need to post this tonight.

The author of the insulting post is not taking responsibility for her writings and that in itself is even more insulting. I am going to add the links to the post and blog as well as the Facebook Community page along with some of the comments for you to read for yourself. 

As a blogger I am offended by the author as well, she does not hold up the integrity and ethics of blogging which is a responsibility we bloggers assume when we choose to post about certain, serious topics such as Cancer and Chronic Illness.

I would personally like to apologize on behalf of the bloggers who do take the time to research the facts and post responsibly as well as morally and ethically correct blog postings.


Beautiful & Bald Barbie Facebook Community:
http://www.facebook.com/BeautifulandBaldBarbie

Update on the "10 Craziest Barbies Ever" blog article on Baby Center...the writer changed the title to "10 Barbies You Will Never Forget" and posted this at the end of the article..." I just wanted to say that I in no way meant to offend anybody with this post’s previous title. When I said “crazy,” I meant it as meaning the dolls were unique and out of the ordinary. I have a niece who suffers from alopecia, I would never want to exclude her from having a doll made that looks like her. I’ve removed the “crazy” from the post."

Unfortunately she seems too proud to actually apologize nor does she correct the implication that a Beautiful and Bald Barbie is the only one listed that is only a concept and not an actual marketed and produced Barbie. Unforgettable? I sure hope that is true IF Barbie really makes her. Let's hope she WILL BECOME an "unforgettable Barbie" in reality. ~ Jane


I just wanted to say that I in no way meant to offend anybody with this post’s previous title. When I said “crazy,” I meant it as meaning the dolls were unique and out of the ordinary. I have a niece who suffers from alopecia, I would never want to exclude her from having a doll made that looks like her. I’ve removed the “crazy” from the post.

If you would like more information on how you can support those families battling cancer or disabilities, please see these groups in BabyCenter’s community:

Childhood Cancer Support
Survivor Mommies
Moms With Breast Cancer
Breast Cancer Awareness
Children With Disabilities
Children With Cerebral Palsy
Children and Babies With Global Developmental Delay

Thanks for reading. Denise


Denise Cortes says:
March 16, 2012 at 6:15 pm

When I first saw the comments pouring in, my response was wow, chill out guys. I was confused as to why there would be such a backlash about a slideshow about *10 of the craziest Barbie dolls ever* when I never said a bald Barbie was ridiculous or sad or weird or wrong. Or made! I know the backstory. Yes, poor choice or words, I’ll admit. But I truly meant crazy as in out of the ordinary and different. I did not mean to slam the concept at all. I feel bad that people think I am some a-hole who has a problem with cancer survivors and/or handicapped people, which couldn’t be further from the truth. I can understand a person’s passion on the subject, but honestly, I didn’t mean to work everyone up.

Well, I had to voice my opinion as well and leave a comment for the author which I did over an hour ago and they are still waiting for approval to be published on the blogs comments with the previous 184 comments today.

Angie says:
Your comment is awaiting moderation.

March 16, 2012 at 10:01 pm

As a blogger I can say if you were going for hits on your post and/or blog, you got them! Unfortunately you got only negative hits and obviously they will not be returning to your blog, so congrats on your spike for today but plan on seeing it drop seriously within days if not hours.

How could you have gotten such an important fact WRONG? If you honestly believed what you were writing about than you need to rethink your hobby. The blogging world is not a game and it is people like you that make a bad name for the rest of us.

Bloggers are powerful tools for causes that need the power of the internet to raise awareness for their cause to help bring in funding and support that is much needed to find the cure for their cause.

What you posted today was not only ignorant on your part but could have caused some serious set backs on the negotiations for the production of the Bald and Beautiful Barbie but also may have confused some readers who do not have access to all the information.

I am sorry if I am being rude to you but you have a responsibility to your readers and other bloggers to blog facts and truth especially if you are discussing such serious topics as this.

I would suggest you write a new posting and fix what you have done, I am not going to tell you exactly what that will involve because I think you need to figure that out so at least you can learn something from this and prevent such stupid postings in the future!

Angie says:
Your comment is awaiting moderation.

March 16, 2012 at 10:22 pm

Well I guess I spoke too soon, I actually did not expect you to comment on your own blog post so I did not read every single one. As I was looking over them again I came across your comment as quoted below.

All I can say is I am shocked that you would post what you blogged today, but your comment is completely out of line. You act as if you are the victim here. You are not capable of feeling what the people who commented are feeling.

You need to seriously think before you blog, your vocabulary needs some fine tuning as well as your manors. You should be begging for forgiveness but instead you are insulting even more.

Consider stepping down as a blogger, you represent a huge organization and if you are a responsible person you will do them the favor of leaving.

I do hope that this does not interfere with the talks between Mattel and the Facebook Community and the barbie is produced very soon. I posted this tonight to sum up today's events and maybe it will help in some way even if it just clears up some of the confusion. Thank you for supporting the cause!

There will never be another year in America like 1968.

"It's not your right to refuse that order, and you go out there and do it because you're ordered to." 

That was how a soldier explained his actions to the Peers Commission for what would become probably one of the most infamous events of the Vietnam War,The My Lai tragedy took place on March 16th 1968.


At this time I must say, I have read several news articles that covered the events that occured on March 16th in My Lai and have found there are many different accounts of that incident. I can not personally give an opinion on what and how this happened or how the final court cases ended. I can say that the Vietnam War was a unique war and our country learned so much from that war that also is one of the most significant wars in history to change our whole government and the way we fight wars today. In addition the US is a free country and we have rights and freedoms we take for granted every day, but if it were not for our Vietnam Veterans we would not be living the american dream and have the right to report and voice our opinions on incidents such as My Lai as we can now.

Unless you have been put in that position to do what you are ordered to do by a commanding officer, you cannot judge the ones who were. As far as I am concerned the men and women who fought for our country in the Vietnam War are hero's and always will be. They went to do what they were ordered to do and they did not ask why, they fought for our country and we must continue to fight for them today. 

Here is the My Lai incident as told by a few different sources, I tried to find as many unbiased reporters as I could to be able to publish the truth of the story and have the facts told.

THIS WOULD BE THE FINAL OUTCOME: The cases were tried in military courts with juries of Army officers, which eventually dropped the charges against all of the defendants (except Calley) or acquitted them. Medina and the others who were among the killing soldiers that day went free, and only Calley was convicted of the murders of “at least 20 civilians.” Nobody was convicted of the murders of the other 400+ villagers. Calley was sentenced to life imprisonment for his crime, but, under pressure from patriotic pro-war Americans, President Nixon pardoned him within weeks of the verdict.

WHAT LED UP TO THESE TRIALS IS AS FOLLOWS: There will never be another year in America like 1968. Why that year became one of the most tumultuous periods in our history will probably never be known. It began on an ominous note when one of America’s most fervent enemies, North Korea, seized a U.S. Navy intelligence ship, named the U. S. S. Pueblo, in the Sea of Japan on January 23. They held the ship and its crew for many months and nearly started a full-scale war. In Vietnam, the massive Tet Offensive, launched by the Viet Cong against almost every major city in the south, caused massive casualties on all sides.

The assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King touched off numerous riots in dozens of American cities. Two months later, the brother of a murdered President, Senator Robert Kennedy, was assassinated in Los Angeles at the hands of an Arab fanatic. Colleges across the country were enveloped in a wave of protest and violence over the Vietnam War, which was killing hundreds of young Americans every week.

In August, the Democratic Presidential Convention in Chicago was wrecked by thousands of young people who fought the Chicago police on live TV, symbolizing the anguish of a divided nation. Richard Nixon was elected President in November and man made his first tenuous step into eternity as Apollo 10 astronauts said Christmas prayers from the dark side of the Moon. It seemed as if anything could happen that year, and then, there was My Lai.

IN FEBRUARY AND MARCH OF 1968 Charlie Company, of the 1st Battalion, 11th Brigade, suffered severe losses as a result of these traps. In one instance, while patrolling near Son My, the company stumbled upon a heavily laid minefield. As the explosions went off among them, the men tried to push forward. It was the worst thing they could have done. More explosions ripped through the helpless soldiers. Broken and severed limbs were everywhere. When it was over, 15 men were killed and wounded. By the time early March rolled around, Charlie Company had suffered 28 casualties and had yet to actually see any Viet Cong. They were seething with an anger and hatred for an enemy that, to them, was mostly invisible.

ON THE NIGHT OF MARCH 15, 1968, the men and commanders of Charlie Company gathered outside Captain Medina's "hooch". That very day, the company had a memorial service for Sgt. George Cox, a popular N.C.O. who was killed by a booby trap while on patrol near QL-1 the day before. The men were demoralized, angry and frustrated with an enemy that so far, had gotten the best of them.

Captain Medina briefed the company on the next day's assault on My Lai. What was said at this meeting and exactly what the orders were concerning the mission has remained in dispute. Some of those at the meeting say that Medina gave direct orders to kill all the civilians. "He (Medina) stated that My Lai #4 was a suspected VC stronghold and that he had orders to kill everybody that was in the village," testified Spec. 4 Max Hutson of the 2nd Platoon . Others disagreed. Pfc. Gregory Olsen remembered the briefing differently and testified to the Army C.I.D.: "Captain Medina would never have given an order to kill women and children." Whatever was said, and it is impossible to determine exactly what orders were issued, the men of Charlie Company saw the next day's mission as an opportunity to pay back the Viet Cong for their booby traps, their mine fields and the blood of the 11th Brigade.

THE EARLY MORNING OF MARCH 16, 1968 in Southern Quang Ngai was calm and cool. The men of the 1st Platoon made their final check on ammunition and supplies. They quickly boarded the waiting aircraft, filled with the expectation that the company may be "getting even" with an enemy that was mostly unseen, mysterious and hated.

BY THE AFTERNOON OF MARCH 16, 1968, while the operation was still in progress, 11th Brigade headquarters at Duc Pho knew that something drastic had happened at My Lai 4. In the following days, officers of the Americal Division met several times at Chu Lai to discuss the operation. Although inquiries were made about the 1st Battalion, 20th Infantry, no disciplinary action was taken.

ONLY ONE PERSON HAD PROOF OF WHAT HAPPENED ON MARCH 16, 1968. Only one man had the irrefutable evidence of the day's events at My Lai. That man was Ron Haeberle, an Army photographer. Ron Ridenhour, 21, arrived in Vietnam in January of 1968 and was assigned to the aviation branch of the 11th Infantry Brigade at Chu Lai. During that year, he became friends with the "grunts" (infantry foot soldiers) and often drank with the men on their off time in the clubs on the base. Ridenhour also was a member of a special unit called Long Range Reconnaissance Patrols (LRPS). Although he did not participate in the attack on My Lai, Ridenhour heard stories about what happened on March 16, including vivid descriptions of the killing. Over the next few months, the stories he heard originated from so many different sources, Ridenhour realized there must be some truth to them. When he returned to the United States after his tour of duty, he sat down in his home in Phoenix, Arizona and composed a letter that described his fears.

OVER THE SUMMER OF 1969, the Army conducted an investigation into the actions of the 1st Battalion at My Lai. Headed by a no-nonsense Army officer, Colonel William Wilson, the inquiry involved the first face-to-face interviews with the soldiers who were actually there on March 16, 1968. Colonel Wilson was a North Carolina native, a highly decorated Green Beret and combat veteran of World War II. He received a Purple Heart for war wounds and served in many combat zones throughout the years including the Congo in 1965. Among Army personnel, he was highly respected and regarded as a "soldier's soldier". He conducted his interviews in full uniform wearing a chest full of medals so that the young soldiers would feel that he was one of them, an infantryman who knew the devastating pressures of close up war.

IN AUGUST OF 1969, President Richard Nixon, on vacation in San Clemente, was told that Lt. William Calley and others would soon be charged with mass murder for the hundreds of killings at My Lai. Politically, it was a catastrophe for the Nixon White House. America was bitterly divided over the Vietnam War, Nixon was trying to drum up support for his policies and stifle the dissent at home. He also felt that the North Vietnamese would never fully negotiate if they knew that the American people were divided over the fate of the war.

"It is clear that something hideous happened at My Lai...I fear and dread what this will do to our society unless we try to understand it...For it is America that is being judged. And America will be condemned, unless we undertake some larger effort than can be had from a court martial."  President Richard Nixon.

ON DECEMBER 5, 1969, Life magazine ran Haeberle's photos of what took place in My Lai. There, for the world to see, in bright unforgiving color showed something beyond anything America had ever seen before, had happened in My Lai.

ON MARCH 29, 1971, after the longest court martial in American history and thirteen days of deliberations, Lt. William Calley was found guilty of the murder of at least twenty-two Vietnamese civilians. Calley, then 27, stood erect as he heard the verdict. He saluted the jury foreman, Colonel Clifford Ford, and returned to his seat at the defense table. His attorney, George Latimer, told the press: "It was a horrendous decision for the United States, the United States Army and for my client. Take my word for it, the boy is crushed."

To read the entire story please go to this link:  http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/notorious_murders/mass/lai/index_1.html 

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